Personal Childhood Web

This is my creator and confidant; the top of my web. I owe everything to her. She raised me, praised me, groomed me, and cherished me unconditionally. She loved me even when I did not deserve to be loved. Throughout her life, she made a great deal of sacrifices so that I could have the things that she never had. My mom will always be my number one supporter. She has been by my side through ups and downs, highs and lows and has always been very positive and nonjudgmental. She continues to support my choices and endeavors. I could not ask for a better, mother, sister, and friend!!

On the left of my mom is my late aunt, whom I had the misfortune of losing to cancer last year. May she rest in peace. Losing my aunt was like losing a limb. She was another person who influenced me significantly. Because my mom and aunt lost their mom and grandma at the tender ages of 11 and 14, all they had was their father and grandfather (for a short period of time).Then a few years later, I came along. My aunt was my rock; she was my other mother because she had no children of her own. She taught me so many vital as well as small things; from showing compassionate and empathy for others, to having the commitment and confidence to achieve my goals. She also taught me how to read, ride a bike and later on how to style my hair, apply make-up, and choose appropriate clothing. My aunt was always there for me. She believed in me when I did not believe in myself. She would give me a hug just when I needed it and when my daughter came along, she passed all of the love she had for me down to her as well. My aunt will continue to be in my heart eternally.

This was the man of my life; my grandfather/father. He passed away in 2000. He was the father that I always wanted, but never had up until a couple of years ago.  My grandfather was a truck driver for over thirty years and he loved his job. He modeled and taught me the value of working hard and establishing a good work ethic. He would always tell me how important it was to get to work early and do a good job. Another thing he taught me was the importance of being independent so that no man could control or have power over me. My grandfather was an awesome father, husband, and grandfather. He did everything for me, my mom, and aunt. I remember how he used to pick me up from elementary and middle school in his truck to have lunch with me after school. He also introduced to me roller skating and movies. On the weekends, he would pick me up and take me roller skating or to see a movie. My grandfather made sure I never missed a circus, amusement park, or anything. On top of that, Christmas was like having my own toy store and birthdays were unforgettable.  To sum things up, my grandfather spoiled me, but he also taught me the value of working hard to accomplish my goals so that I could have a fulfilling life without depending on anyone. I miss him dearly!! I miss his smile, advice, and most of all his jokes. He will always hold a special a place in my heart.

This is my cousin, sister, and friend. My cousin and I grew up closely together. We have always been close because my grandfather and her grandmother were brothers and sisters. Therefore, they made sure we stayed in contact with one another. As a result, we are still close to this day. It’s funny how we are so much alike. I believe we share lot of the same values because my grandfather was influential in her life and her grandmother was like a grandmother to me.  However, because my cousin was a bit more focused, she stayed on top of me. She would always give me a push or reality check when as needed. She was the person who was always direct with me and would tell me the things that I did not want, but needed to hear. My cousin has always been supportive of me as I was with her too. She helped me get back in school and motivated me until I finish. I love her!!

Last, but not least is my wonderful, life-long friend. I grew up with him and learned a lot from him as well even as a child. I remember when we younger how I used to have dinner at his house and how his grandma treated me like I was one of her children. At the age of 13, he was very mature and as a result he would try to tell me what to do, but thinking back on things, I realize that he was smart for a 13yr. old. However, because I moved to the south several years ago, we lost contact. But a mutual friend made sure we were reunited earlier this year. I love my friend because he always looked out for me and my needs first. He has always been a giving, caring, and thoughtful young gentleman. He had to grow up quickly because he did not have a relationship with his mom or dad. He was raised by his wise grandmother who he ended up taking care of at the young age of 13. Because she was very spiritual and influential in his life, she transferred a lot of that down to him. As result, he passed a lot of it on to me. My friend has always tried to keep me grounded and focused. He constantly provides me with friendly and spiritual advice. His positive spirit and outlook on life lifts me up when I’m feeling down. Maybe one day when we are able to find a happy medium as for where we can both live we will come together again.

This is my beautiful daughter who influences me now.